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Nobody buys on the first touch. Here's what the sequence looks like

Sep 2
12 min read

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Somewhere in almost every marketing meeting, someone says a version of this: we ran the campaign, we got the reach, and nothing happened.

Usually nothing was wrong with the campaign. What was wrong was that it was designed as though one exposure could carry a stranger all the way to a purchase.

That is not how buying works, for anything that costs real money or real effort.


In short :

  • Buying is a series of small steps, not one decision, and each step only happens if the one before it went well. The order of the steps matters far more than how many there are.

  • Most campaigns fail because they ask for step six from someone standing on step one. Your job is to know which step each piece of work is moving, and to make the next one easy.

Why doesn't one good piece of marketing close the sale?

Nobody buys on the first touch because the person does not yet have enough information about you to justify the risk. One piece of marketing cannot supply everything they need to make a decision.

Because the person does not yet have enough information about you to justify the risk, and one piece of marketing cannot supply it.

Think about what a buyer has to become confident about before they commit. That the problem is real. That it is worth solving now. That this kind of solution is the right kind. That your version of it works. That you specifically are competent. That it will not be a disaster to implement. That they can defend the choice if asked.

That is seven separate judgements. No single advertisement, page, or video establishes seven judgements in a stranger. It can establish one, maybe two.

So a person moves through those judgements over time, one or two at a time, usually across several encounters with you, most of which you will never see. The sale is the last event in a long chain, and it gets all the credit for the chain.

What counts as a touch?

Anything that puts you in front of the buyer, including the ones you did not pay for and cannot see.

The list is longer than most marketing plans account for:

  • An advertisement they scrolled past twice

  • A page on your site

  • Someone mentioning your name in a WhatsApp group

  • A search result they did not click but did read

  • Your reply time to an email

  • A video where they watched forty seconds

  • A colleague saying "oh, them, my cousin used them"

  • Your invoice, your proposal, your contract

  • The way your office looks in a photo

Some of those you control. Many you do not. All of them are contributing.

This matters practically, because the touches you do not control are often the ones doing the most work. A recommendation from someone the buyer trusts can carry three or four steps in one move. Almost nothing you can buy does that. Which is why businesses that are good at making customers talk grow with less marketing than businesses that are not.

How Many Touches , Before Nobody Buys on the First Touch?

Nobody honestly knows, and you should be suspicious of anyone who gives you a number.

You will see figures quoted with great confidence ,seven, eleven, twenty-seven. I cannot trace any of them to research I would rely on, so I am not going to repeat them. What I can say from watching this in practice is that it varies enormously by what is being bought:

  • Something cheap, low-risk, and familiar: sometimes one or two.

  • A service costing a few months of someone's budget: many, over weeks or months.

  • Something that changes how a company operates: a lot, over a long time, involving several people.

The number is not the useful thing anyway. Two businesses can both take "about twelve touches" and one converts and one does not, because the twelve were in a different order and did different jobs.

Stop asking how many. Start asking which one is missing.

What does the sequence actually look like?

Six positions, and each one has a different job. The names do not matter; the order does.

Where they are

What they're thinking

What actually moves them

Doesn't know you exist

Nothing. You are not in their world

Being where they already are, saying something they recognise as their problem

Knows you exist

"Some company that does this"

One useful thing, given freely, that shows you know the subject

Thinks you might know something

"That was actually good"

More of the same, consistently, so it stops being a fluke

Willing to spend real time on you

"I'd read a long thing by these people"

Depth. The long article, the detailed answer, the real explanation

Considering you specifically

"Could we work with them?"

Evidence about people like them. Mechanics. What the first month looks like

Ready to commit

"What would this actually involve?"

A small, clear, low-risk first step

The failure everyone makes is to build good material for positions one and two, then jump straight to asking for position six.

Why does the order matter more than the quantity?

Because a step taken out of order does not just fail, it costs you the ones before it.

Say someone has read two of your articles and thinks well of you. They are at position three. If your next contact is a sales call request, you have asked them to jump three places. Most people will not, and a good number will quietly disengage, because the ask reveals that the previous two useful things were setup for a pitch.

You have not just failed to get the meeting. You have retroactively devalued the two good pieces of work that got you this far.

This is why the businesses that push hardest often convert worst with serious buyers. Every premature ask resets the relationship.

The purpose of any single piece of marketing is not to produce a sale. It is to earn the right to the next contact.

What breaks a sequence?

Four things, and three of them are avoidable.

Asking for too much, too early. The most common. Covered above.

Going quiet. A sequence is not a series of unrelated events — it is a pattern, and patterns depend on continuity. A business that publishes six good pieces and then nothing for four months has not built a sequence. It has built a memory that is now fading. Consistency beats brilliance here, and it is not close.

Repeating the same touch. Sending the same kind of thing eleven times does not move someone through six positions. It moves them into position two and holds them there. Each contact should be doing a different job than the last.

The timing genuinely being wrong. The unavoidable one. Sometimes a buyer is perfectly warm and cannot act because of something in their own business. The answer is not to push. It is to stay present at a low level and be there when the situation changes. Most businesses give up on these too early and then watch the buyer sign with someone else eight months later.

How do you tell a touch that moves someone from one that doesn't?

Ask what the person can do afterwards that they could not do before.


A touch that moves someone leaves them with something: a new understanding, a piece of evidence, a reason to trust, a question answered. A touch that does not move anyone leaves them exactly where they were, having spent a few seconds.

Two examples of the same channel doing both:

  • A post that says "Happy Onam from all of us." Pleasant. Moves nobody. Nothing is different afterwards.

  • A post that says "Here's the question we got asked four times last month, and the answer." Someone now knows something they did not know, and knows you know it.

The second one costs the same to produce.

Apply this test to your own last month of output. Go through each item and write down what a reader could do afterwards that they could not do before. The list of items with nothing next to them is your answer to why the sequence is not moving.

Does this work when you can't control the order?

You cannot control it, and you do not need to. You need to cover the positions.

Nobody walks through your funnel in the order you designed. They arrive from a search halfway through, go backwards, disappear for two months, come back through a friend's recommendation, and read three things in the wrong order.

So the practical version is not a sequence you march people down. It is a set of things that exist, one for each position, findable when the person happens to need it.

Which turns the planning question into something much easier to answer: for each of the six positions, what do we have? Most businesses, honestly audited, find they have four things for position two, nothing for positions four and five, and a contact form.

The gap at positions four and five is why the pipeline stalls. Those are the depth pieces and the evidence pieces, the long article, the detailed explanation of how it works, the account of what happened with someone similar. They are the most work to produce and the most commonly missing.

What about buyers who arrive ready to buy?

They exist, and they are not evidence against any of this.

Every business has some people who search for exactly what it sells, land on the site, and enquire the same day. It is tempting to conclude that the sequence does not matter for them.

Usually what happened is that the sequence ran somewhere you could not see it. They had the problem for four months. They asked two people for recommendations. They read three competitors' pages last week. By the time they reached you they were at position five and you saw only the last step.

The practical consequence is not to ignore them, it is to make sure the thing they land on is built for position five, not position one. A ready buyer arriving on a page written to introduce the concept will bounce, and that will be recorded as a traffic quality problem when it was a page problem.

Two different jobs, two different pages. Most businesses have one page trying to do both, which serves the ready buyer badly and the newcomer worse.

Who owns the sequence : marketing or sales?

Nobody, usually, which is why it breaks in the middle.

In most businesses marketing owns positions one to three, sales owns five and six, and position four ,the point where someone is willing to spend real time on you but is not ready to talk to anybody belongs to no one.

That gap is where a large number of interested people quietly disappear. They were not ready for a conversation, and there was nothing else on offer, so they left and were recorded as an unqualified lead.

Two fixes, neither of which requires reorganising anything:

Name an owner for position four. Someone has to be responsible for the depth material — the long explanations, the detailed answers, the things a person reads at 11pm without talking to anybody.

Agree what a handover actually means. Most arguments between marketing and sales are really disagreements about which position a person is in. If both sides can name the six positions and agree where someone sits, the argument becomes a conversation about evidence rather than about blame.

How do you know it's working before the sales arrive?

Watch the movement between positions, not the end of the line.

This is the practical problem with long sequences: the thing you care about is months away, so for months you have nothing to report and the program looks like it is failing.

The answer is to measure the steps, not the destination. Four things that move early:

Early signal

What it tells you

Return visitors, not new ones

People are coming back. That is position two becoming position three

Time spent on the depth pages

Somebody is at position four. If this number is zero, the gap is confirmed

Replies, not opens

Someone did something that cost them effort

Direct and branded search

People are typing your name. This is the clearest evidence the sequence exists at all

That last one is the most useful and the least watched. When people start searching for your business by name rather than finding you by accident, the sequence is working, and it will show up months before revenue does.

Report those four while the long thing runs. It is the difference between a program that gets cancelled in month six and one that survives to work.

How do you build a sequence from nothing?

Four steps, in order, and the first one is not making anything.

1. Find out what they already have. List everything currently in existence and assign each item to a position. Do it honestly. Most businesses discover they have twelve things at position two and nothing anywhere else.

2. Build for the biggest gap first, not the top. The instinct is to start at the beginning and make more awareness material. Usually wrong. If you have plenty of people aware of you and nothing at position four, more awareness material makes the problem worse — more people arrive at a gap.

3. Make the last step small. Whatever your current first commercial ask is, halve it. The purpose of the first paid or committed step is not revenue; it is to establish that working together is survivable. Small first steps that go well produce large second steps.

4. Then keep going. Consistency is the part that actually separates businesses that build this and businesses that abandon it in month five. The sequence only works when it is still there next quarter.

What if you can only afford one thing?

Build position four, and point everything you already do at it.

This is the most common real situation ,a small team, no budget for a six-part programme, and a demand to show something this quarter. So the question is not what the ideal sequence looks like. It is which single piece does the most work.

It is almost always the depth piece. The long, honest, specific explanation of the thing your buyers are actually trying to work out. Here is why it wins on a constrained budget:

  • It is the position most businesses have nothing at, so it is the biggest gap

  • It gets found on its own through search, so it keeps working after you stop paying attention

  • It can be sent by hand in a sales conversation, which makes it useful immediately rather than in six months

  • It carries someone from position three to position five in one move, which nothing lighter does

One good depth piece, linked from everything else you already publish, beats four new channels. It is also the hardest thing to make, which is exactly why so few competitors have one.

How long should the whole thing take?

Longer than a quarter, and you should say so out loud before you start.

For a considered purchase, the honest range is months, not weeks, the buyer needs time between contacts to actually think, and compressing it is the same mistake as asking too much too early.

What this means in practice is that a sequence started in April is not a fair thing to judge in June. The pieces that need to exist take time to make, the audience takes time to accumulate, and the buyers who will eventually convert are still at position two.

Say this at the beginning, to whoever is paying, with the early signals above attached as what will be reported in the meantime. A sequence that gets cancelled at month five because nobody set the expectation is the most expensive failure in this whole discipline, you paid for all of the cost and none of the compounding.

What does this change on Monday?

Audit what exists against the six positions. One hour, a sheet, honest answers. This will show you the gap, and the gap is usually not where anyone expected.

Name the position for every piece of work in your plan. If a piece cannot be assigned to a position, it does not have a job.

Find the biggest ask in your current marketing and halve it. Then check what happens over two weeks.

Stop measuring individual pieces on sales. Measure them on whether the next contact happened. That is what they are actually for.

Pick one thing you will publish every week regardless. Consistency is doing more work here than quality, and it is the cheaper of the two to supply.

The one thing to take away

You are not trying to convince someone. You are trying to move them one position, and then be there for the next one.

Every piece of work has a position it is moving from and a position it is moving to. When you know those two things, most of the decisions about what to make, how long it should be, and what it should ask for answer themselves.

Read the Method page for how we teach this as the backbone of the whole job.

See the 90-day program if you want to build one of these under review, on real briefs.


FAQ

How many touchpoints does it take before a customer makes a purchase?

There is no fixed number of touchpoints before a purchase. It depends on what is being bought, how expensive or risky it is, and how much confidence the buyer needs before committing.

One piece of marketing usually cannot give a buyer enough information to justify the risk of purchasing. Buyers often need several encounters to understand the problem, evaluate the solution, trust the company, and feel confident about their decision.

A touchpoint is any interaction that puts a business in front of a potential buyer. It can include an advertisement, website page, search result, social media video, email response, recommendation, proposal, or even an invoice.

Yes. The order matters because buyers need different information at different stages of their decision. Asking someone to make a sales call before they have enough understanding or trust can cause them to disengage.

A useful touchpoint should leave the buyer with something they did not have before, such as new understanding, evidence, trust, or an answered question. If the buyer cannot do or understand anything differently after the interaction, the touchpoint may not be moving them forward.

Build a strong depth piece that answers the main question buyers are trying to work out. A detailed, useful piece of content can move someone from considering a company to seriously evaluating it, while also being useful in search and sales conversations.


 
 
 

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